10 Ways to Incorporate Valentine’s Day into Your Wedding Without Going Overboard Getting married in February or on Valentine’s Day itself? You’re not alone. It’s a romantic time of year, but let’s be honest—the clichés can pile up faster than you can say "heart-shaped confetti." So how do you embrace the Valentine’s vibe without turning your wedding into a greeting card explosion? Here’s how to nail the balance between romantic and refined. 1. Start with Subtle Colors, Not a Red Overload Yes, red is the color of Valentine’s Day, but there’s no need to drench your wedding in crimson.